I'm a straight-shooter. I won't candy-coat it. That plan you had... that vision of fatherhood... it's irrelevant now. Go ahead and mourn. Go ahead and let yourself be angry. Affix blame on whomever you'd like. Yell at God a little, he can take it.
Are you done?
Now here's the deal. Your son's path will be different. I'm not saying he is incapable of anything. I believe our kids can do ANYTHING their hearts desire. But that's the catch. It has to be something HIS heart desires, not yours.
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